Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Online chatting won't fulfill your life

I was motivated by the concept: population scale from an online lesson regarding how to attract followers.

That means the number of readers is related to the number of friends on Wechat contacts.

Maintaining a Wechat subscription is like running a shop, cheap jerseys, if the shop sits in the middle of CBD, then more customers will be available.

The same as a subscription, the more friends on the contact list; the more opportunities will open to us.

The lecturer said he had 10,000 contacts on his three mobile phones, if 10% join him, there will be 1000 followers.

However, if there are only 1000 friends on Wechat, followers will be 100.

That’s a big difference.

It sounds like a good idea to me.

Look at my Wechat; there were less than 100 because I only accepted a few friend requests and deleted some I have never met.

The reason is that I hate texting and don’t know if I trust them or not, some guys have no profile photo and no posting at the moment. They are invisible.

Starting a subscription is always hard; we need mind-like people to join us.

Wechat People nearby shows a neighbor my blogs.

In China, my account might be blocked; no one can find me from the nearby function.

Fortunately, it works very well in Melbourne; there are almost 12 to 20 friend requests per day.

Most of them are professionals because my place is surrounded by banks and headquarters in the heart of the business center.

Initially, I expected people were joining Englishpassion directly (the code at the bottom of the blog), cheap snapback hats, but quite a lot of Aussies have no idea how to use it; they don’t know where my blogs are.

After online classes, I changed mind. Probably, I should accept more locals including travelers; they could be my potential readers one day if there is 10% chance, the more friends, the better.

Some do enjoy my blogs; they give likes and ask questions, which is good.

On the other hand, it brings trouble; some people are very friendly, once I accept them, they text back immediately: “Hi, how are you? What’s your name? What are you doing? Can we chat?”

My lord, if I spend 2 minutes on each person, 20*2= 40, I will waste 40 minutes per day, and some of them might still not satisfied.

For example, I was very kind to one guy as he read my articles, whenever he sent me a message, I texted back.

One day, I was busy without paying attention to his message, a few days later he deleted me.

Since then, I decided not texting back if someone only says hi without referring to blogs.
I changed what’s up on Wechat: for my blogs, no chat, please.

It doesn't mean I don’t like communicating with people, yes, I enjoy it very much, but I can’t stand repetitive words 100 times: “What’s your name? Where are you from? What are you doing?”

Friends, if you care about me, please read blogs, it’s all about my personal life.

If you trust me, please tell your stories, or if you have concerns, please ask, and I would appreciate if you leave a comment at the bottom of a blog.

Just please don’t ask questions I have already written in blogs, I am not interested, and can’t afford to waste precious time tell ten people ten times.

My time is limited; I’d go to work, almost 10 hours a day, doing housework, cooking, having dancing classes, physical exercises, shopping, writing two articles a week and meeting friends occasionally, wholesale jerseys china, the rest of the time reading books.

Then you understand I do not have free time text you back 2 minutes*20 people =40 minutes a day answering the same questions over and over, which will kill me.

I can tell that you treasure friendship very much; you might put friends on your priority list.

If you don’t mind, I am keen on knowing your stories, but please do not ask dull questions.

I totally understand your feeling being ignored after sent out texting messages without hearing feedback.

I had the same experience as you guys years ago. I was bored, I felt something missing in life, though I worked eight hours a day and attended lots of activities including the meetup group.

But I didn’t feel full and hopefully find someone who could text with, who would like to share my stories.

As I regarded it as an important thing to tell friends my thoughts, meanwhile, they should also put me in mind by texting back immediately.

I waited and waited with no reply after sending out messages, cheap mlb hats, which frustrated me a lot and gave me the sense of being ignored, I was very upset.

Gradually, I realized that I couldn't rely on someone else to help me out if being bored, I have to solve the problem by myself.

I find it much happier doing housework, meeting friends, joining activities than waiting for a person texting back.

If we set up a goal for a person, we can’t get the reward as expected; it is very unreliable because we can’t control it.

Albert Einstein said: If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.

Therefore, please find out what you enjoy doing, which brings value to the society.

If you start from the first step towards the top of the mountain, trust me, you will meet interesting people, and amazing things will happen to you.

Take myself, for example, a few years ago, I enjoyed texting very much, at that time, I didn’t open up Wechat people nearby, so I couldn’t find many to chat.

When I texted to a few friends in real life, no one replied me; I was not happy at all.

After that, I discovered passion- writing. Since then, cheap nfl jerseys, my life has been dramatically changed, and I don’t need text to anyone as I am too busy to afford the time.

Now my writing brings value to the followers, and that’s the real happiness I’ve got if some people tell me they learn things from my blogs.

Meanwhile, it keeps me busy and gives me energy and joy.

Most important thing, writing brings me back to the Uni life, that’s the best moment I’ve ever had.

Sorry, friends, please don’t be annoyed if I haven’t replied you, Cheap wholesale jerseys, I don’t think I can’t help you out through online chatting.

I wish you discover and do something meaningful which fulfill your potential and live to the fullest.

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

The power of team

As the proverb says" one person can not pick up the dead bear,move thousands of mountains together.", cheap mlb hatsone tree can not make a wood and etc. These language are described fully about the strength of team.We all know that "1+1=2".Obviously, why were we always being heard "1+1>2"?That's because we are member of a team, even a small company, a club, if we work together within full energy, we can overcome any difficult on the way. As a member of company, we should be  make full use of the platform which provides for us. Elaborating your advantage into the big family, As is known to all, individual fight is hardly to survive in the full of competition and challenges environment. especially in the fast-paced society.The world is cruel.Just like a dictum" There was no a perfect man, just only with a perfect team." If you can not got support from others, without the power of every member, we can not succeed. I still remembered clearly that when we had had a project  to push. It's much tired during that first period, but still got any clear implement on it.It was still delayed on my side. One day, when I sat down within a depressed mood, pull out the phone and look for the moments on wechat. There was a title topic which shocked me. " The power of team is endless". Looking back upon the issued project, i made myself alone in the big family.After listening to their suggestions and effective method, the project got a positive feedback, meanwhile, cheap nfl jerseysi was fully integrated into the big team.
      A drop of water only survive well after integrate into the sea, as same for individual person,only part of team that can make you grow and successful. Stretch out your arms for your team and trust them.

Love, Live and work...

Time flies ,3 years passed by again, cheap jerseysfinally I have time to surfing online , and the word come into my mind is Dioenglish , I'm happy to see this website still exist as having all your insist update . I think I have to write down a blog here to memorize these 3 years experience and let you guys know I come back and decide to login this blog more than before to make friends from different place .
   I'm a workaholic in work place and a freewheeling girl in living .In my eyes , love is the primary task I need to achieve in this world ,I have to work for my life to get the pure love I seeking .
   Life is complicate , so is the affection , it's too illusory to seize , and you'll get back to where it begun likes a mirage out of reach . there are no coincidence , no lucky happens like TV shows , even you met the right guy you will hesitate and doubt if he's really the one you want , cheap snapback hatsand mostly you will let it go as life won't give time and create opportunity for you to get to know each other like novel .
   All dreamers waste time trying and failing , until follow the heart to marriage and live as ordinary without dream. I won't continute this marriage topic as I can't imaging my life go on like this , so even work is a tool still makes me immerse myself in it completely with my time and life more than a relationship. now I'm hitting a wall in work and feeling powerless to place the hope on a job . I firmly belive wisdom makes person glowing even she's a small patato in others eyes , as long as she owning the strength to break through all obstruction like those guys in Silicon Valley never capitulate to pressure from outside , Drop Dead Diva's Jane using her knowledge and insights fighting for each case fearlessly, they are glowing because of the good relationship from teams friends.
   This world lacking dreamers to insist the impossible , wholesale jerseys, most person positioning life early as me keep rational and emotional in living without passion , certainly couldn't enjoy it since reluctant to put heart in it . So I hope in here I can get back to whom I used to be.