Wednesday, April 26, 2017

When you complain time flies so quickily...

Time never waits for anyone.Every workday,we get up early,hurry to work...it seems that we are racing with time all the time.We have no time to think about much,even we won't wonder what we are living for.Just running towards tomorrow.
Actually, once we feel time flied quickly,which means we are in happiness.Tough life is always hard to get through,when time walks like a snail.
So we should learn to feel content,never complain about tiredness.Rich life brings us such regular habits.So it's more important for us to we should learn to race with time more healthily,cheap nfl jerseys, do the things good for us and make life meaningful.
If we are accompanied by who love us to race with time,I think nothing can be nicer than that.Some people are worried about whether there will be that a person.It's time that can give us everything you want,and what you should do at this moment is just to work hard and wait with a quiet heart.
Let us enjoy the busy time because it's also a happy time.

Act life

Really tired of so much.Hard to believe more people,most uncertain.I will feel very bored to smile at those I don't like at all.Maybe this is the very reason that I love home more and more.Sometimes I think my the same terrible,wholesale jerseys, as long as doing something others are doing.A bit mad in heart indeed!I just wanna do what I like,although possibly thought strange.
Sometimes,I ask myself:Must we say hello when we see each other?Must we show others a good friend-circle to mean our kindness and make use of each other later?When someone leaves us,must we cry to show how deep our affection is?In work,must we try our all efforts to tell all the people we are the most capable?No matter how sad or happy,must we encourage ourself with smiles?I think it is better to smile when being happy,and not to force yourself to do that while being unhappy.However,how much have we done and said even would make ourself feel awful.The only reply to ourself is that we are in society,we should adapt to everything.In fact,we often feel troubled.Not for being a special person,just to make ourselves ease.We also need to try.
I really hate all inherent modes,which makes me living more boring world.Even I dislike to get close to say anything,cheap mlb hats, because of hate the moment of saying useless words.I prefer to be alone or do what I like.Even hate to communicate with others,which I think it a time-wasting.Actually I know more than them,and understand deeper.Each person has different ways of happiness,merely,I only care what arises from true heart,which can make me really happy.So precious they are in such a flashy world.
When you say love to me,I feel it true to your heart.Years later do I realise all affections will change.
When students tell me they love me so much,I feel so happy and think I am the only in their eyes.Months later,I find they say the same words to other teachers,too.
Something is there at this moment,but gone later.
Let it fly!Nothing or nobody belongs to us forever.Too much will bring us burden.
All above is not so important,because it is just a joke,something can be proved by time and hidden in deep heart is what I need.
However,cheap oakley sunglasses, I never fear loss.I hope I can go back to me of nature.No liking hearing or seeing anything around me.To feel life instead of acting life.

Not because you are not good enough.

One day in the past,you got to know some people,they seemed to get close to you.You replied to communicate with them with your true heart.And thought they would be as sincere as you were to them,nothing could stop such a "lasting" friendship.You were wrong because you mistook it as friendship,cheap jerseys, in fact,they were merely false,a trade.They were not what they seemed to be,but a yourself-deception.Remembering a word from someone who I thought true to me,"Don't be too careful to others."
The most terrible thing is that someone is falsely good to you instead of being bad to you frankly.I never fear someone to be bad to me,because I like truth.Everything has two sides,when you lost other's love,you will be more relaxed and live more freely,nobody to think more about,nothing to care more about.You can close your eyes and ears to live as you like.You needn't try to smile at  those "kind" faces,actually with a mask,to please them all the time.When you think the world is not so nice as before,you become maturer in heart.although we still try to keep thinking there is niceness,and there is true love.We hold such a firm belief and learn to run ahead endlessly.
Thank those getting far from me,cheap snapback hats, who let me know true friendship is so precious that not anyone can have.And you aren't originally the same kind.All the things happening to me meant me a silly person.However,I won't change any of my belief.My life will be purer without those falseness.I can't change my liking,pureness.Without it,I will think I am in the dirt.And I am not really good at acting.
Not because of you are not good enough,but you see this world too simply.
You suddenly smile while thinking of those,you needn't waste time and energy to face those people,you will never be cheated again by them,you needn't to care anything of theirs...really a good thing!
Go to hell,so-call friend-energy union,
Go to hell,so-called adapt to everything including good and bad,only to make me think myself awful.
Go to hell,so-called false kindness,I try to be myself.Without help,maybe I will need to solve some problems by myself,but happier without any burden in heart.
Say a lasting bye to you!
Besides my family,fake oakley sunglasses, I can live much better without anyelse.
Yeah,the earth is turning around without anyone.
Life is just a process of seaching for happiness.
Happiness is only from true heart,not a word,a photo or an act.
Got up so early this morning,listening to the birds' singing and music resounding.
I love such days.

Thursday, April 20, 2017

Tiger mom,Cat dad.

Long time ago,I happened to have watched the last episode of this TV play.There are some famous actors in it.cheap snapback hats, I still remember some words in it make great sense.It's about how to educate kids.Not until last week did I finish watching it with son.He found it a week ago and suggested watching it with me.He told me it was a funny play.

It's really interesting,although some scenes are quite moving.I suppose that my son should be another cat dad when he has grown up,for his character is just similar to the man's in it.Would he marry a wife like Tiger mom?

What makes me gratified is that I hardly treated my son so strictly,instead,cheap oakleys, I like to follow his heart.He is a naturally good boy,so he never troubles me.Study isn't a boring thing for him now,also,he has his own dream .I would talk with him about study rather than force him to do something.Because I understood at the very beginning that kids couldn't lose interests in study,once lost,never return.It is just because of forcing that many kids begin to hate studying.We should take some different steps which kids would accept more easily,thus,which will help a lot.

Yeah,what is the most important thing to educate a kid?My answer is to love and respect him.Show your love directly and respect his likings.Never rebuke,but to induce.More encouragement,cheap jerseys, less hit.With your patient to accompany his growing.

Old indeed!

From loving housework to a bit hating,time is changing everything of mine.Loving is because I love the feeling of home,love house,wholesale jerseys, then love housework.I love staying in the tidy rooms after a completely cleaning.It's a kind of enjoyment rather than working.In my memories,each cleaning hadn't taken up more than one day in the years before last year.Last year,we spent two days,one was for tidying,the other was for washing.Of course,including husband and son who helped me.I was so glad to see son could already help me.Treat him a big meal as a prize in that evening.Some days ago,son and I made the same plan as last year,to go out for a big meal after the whole-day cleaning.However,maybe I am old,I felt so tired that cleaning seems so slow.This is already the third day,at this moment, the washing machine is still working.Husband called to ask me several times today whether all were done.Yeah,I washed all the things which could be washed.Hanging is really a big problem,I put them everywhere inside and outside the room.HAHA,cheap fake oakleys, maybe it will frighten him if someone came to my house.I am expecting them to dry quickily,then I can put them away.
It's really a war!

misunderstanding

Misunderstanding can't be avoided in our life.We never know who have ever misunderstood us,cheap nfl jerseys, or who we have ever misunderstood.We hurrily go to explain it,just for a good impression or a good relationship,or for what?
The people with the similar character and inner heart can always understand each other very well.In fact,it's no need explaining between them.Instead,different peoples' explainations are just excuses,maybe nobody would believe.
We need no explainations at all,because fact and time can prove everything.Saying is always easier than doing,however,we should choose to do more instead of saying.Say less,cheap hats, learn to shut up,because saying much is a wasting time and some words from others are very possible to effect mood.
A heart without any businss the whole day is my want.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Classic line

There was a famous sentence when I was falling in love with Tiger, I said If you don’t like it I will never wear it again, till today he always repeat it to me when we were in chatting freely, I know he is just kidding me. Just because of this sentence, he would make the decision I am the one to be his wife in his life.
I knew Tiger by blind dating which was very normal way to know each other for young couples at the late of 80s. so to be honest to say, both of us were not so match by works or by family, cheap oakleys, I worked in one of Joint venture company, he was in a small state own factory, The position of his family was high than mine, therefore to be girl friend or boyfriend we need to more communications to know each other. Frankly speaking I was not so pretty facing Tiger was a handsome boy I was no confident at all, after the first meeting I was sure I like this boy and I must be catch him to be my boy.
Before the second dating, I wanted to be a fashion girl to be more attractive, therefore I bought a bat-wing sleeve coat in pink only for dating, which was very popular at that time, unimagined he did not like it very much, and said to me angrily, how come what do you wear? I neglected he was from a tradditional family, he cannot accept the fancy dress, I was a little upset and said in low voice, if you don’t like it I will never wear it again, after that day, Tiger was happy to ask for the marriage with me. After several years later I realized because of this words he thought I was a nice girl and not so tough and easy to be control that he was looking for.
Unfortunately I don’t have that coat picture right now, cheap jerseys, but I still remember the style, when we recall the story we will always be happy to say, you are a smart lady, due to this sentence to be expression your personality you would be in my whole life, that’s why this is our classic line in our story.

patriotism

for these days, every chinese is  concentrated on the the ownship of the South China Sea. from the qq to the wechat, wholesale jerseys, weibo, the news occupy our eyes and ears. Even I am having a breakfast in our company. the TV in the cantine just is broadcasting live the news. I hear everybody is goissping . A hot topic about  the arbitration in South China Sea have angered most of chinese, especially some patriots. my roommate is a crazy patriot . she would scan through the every piece of new about the South China Sea .and has a hot discuss. once day she downloaded a picture of the chinese map including South China Sea  from the weibo. and sent the picture in the ins and said: South China Sea belongs to China, I love China!!! only in a few minutes.she received a lot of replies . some of these were full of aggressive and defiant. they said South China Sea belongs to philips in broken English . one guy said it belongs to Vietam in vietnamese . they said my roommate was a bitch, cheap fake oakleys, and fake ...My roommate was totally angry and furious。 so I just got my roommate back immidietely . I said :South China sea belongs to China . it is a fact and this can't be changed. when China was super in ancien times, your country was not born yet. and when your country was born, your country was a satellite of China. I wanna say nothing about your poor english. you are so ridiculous。 I just can't believe it. just get out here!!!  actually, in every country, every country will try to get the most benefits from the  controversialboundary territory and every citizen can a crazy patriot and as the same time a bitch and baddie in other's view from other countries.There is much to be said on both sides。 views can be different, well, the fact will be only one , this can't be changed. otherwise, the world is out of order, cheap snapback hats, and truth does not exist anymore. someone will twist the truth for his or her own benefits. I think some countries just do it so. Finally, I would say  I love China, I am a patriot.

about bringing up the child

Yesterday it is mandy's 5 years birthdays, her another 3 best friends come and celebrate for her. She was very excited and happy. they are talking, laughing, speaking and so on. Her father ask her to stop, cheap nfl jerseys, she did not hear at first then her father named  her name and goggled at her then she cried.
All the people and child in silence.
Actually i was in great awkward, since every year he will do so . I had told him a lot time to talk and persuade her if she do something wrong. But he always shouted and goggled. then she will cried. I do not know why he never listen to others.
maybe our parents will teach us in that way, but we should not. Since we should know how to respect others, even if it is a child. Evry time, i will think her as a friend . When i find that she do somethign wrong , i will recall what she did together and ask her if she done is right ? and tell her which is wrong which is right, cheap hats, Also ask her about her own opinion. If she think she is wrong, she can change later.
I do not think her father had done the right thing. I had told him many times he always said he know but will behavior the same  next time. So i do not know how shall i do now.

Sunday, April 16, 2017

A Story of My Nightmare

"Good night, sweetheart." "Good night, mom" That's the ending of a day.However, it may be the beginning of the night. The truth is that I can't be a lucky dog every night so that I had a nightmare that night.
I suddenly opened my eyes,nfl jerseys cheap, feeling colder and colder. Finding myself was not in my room but in a wilderness shocked me. The whole world seemed to full of mist and the sun hid behind the thick clouds. So worried and panicky I was, that I began to yell for help. No matter how hard I tried, no one replied. A horrible thought occurred to me---- I was abandoned by everyone. This can't be true, shaking my head. I kept finding as many reasons as I could to comfort myself and tried to convince myself to deny the terrible hypothesis. Perhaps someone was there in a far distance so that he could not hear me. Taken this as my last hope, I decided to run to find out whether there was someone else. Tears in my eyes nearly fell down. When I unfurled my legs, I find myself just standing still, no change. I tried again, but it still made no sense. It was so ridiculous!NO!Don't leave me alone. I gradually became depressed and burst into tears. The foggy mist swallowed me.
You may not think this is a nightmare but just a simple scene. As a matter of fact, cheap hats, this is actually a terrifying nightmare for me. Losing everyone or just someone is an extremely hard thing for me. And I sincerely don't want anyone to leave me. This is me.

Post Traumatic Growth

  I read a speech given by a famous human resource director last week. Her idea which impressed me a lot deserves to spread. The speech starts with a question. If your company launches a search for an open position. The applications start rolling in and the qualified candidates are identified. There are two persons for you. Person A who graduated from Ivy League has flawless resume and great recommendations. Person B who graduated from state school had amount of job hopping and odd jobs,cheap nfl hats, like cashier or singing waitress. Who are you going to pick?
  She uses two words to describe these two distinct categories of candidates calling A"the Silver Spoon" who had clear advantages and was destined for success, calling B the"Scrapper"who had to fight against difficulties to reach the same goal. She explained that she had met some person whose experiences are various. Sometimes job hoppings mean inconsistency, lack of focus or unpredictability. But she will consider interviewing them before tossing resumes away. Because that may signal a committed struggle against obstacles and they know how to handle the tough time. At the very least, replica oakley sunglasses, they deserve an interview.The cinventional thinking has been that the trauma leads to distress. But children who experient poverty, abandonment or death of parents can also succeed. The worst circumstance can result in growth and transformation. This is a phenomenon which scientists call Post Traumatic Growth. Steve Jobs, who did not finish the college and job hops quite a bit. To top it off, he has dyslexia.Actually, he becomes one of the world's most highly successful entrepreneurs.
It indicates that we should regard adversity as a sort of motive, which can help us become more meticulous and assiduous. To a great extent, we know who we are because of adversity.

My unpleasant dream

One day I wake up at 7 o'clock suddenly, secondarily I found a terrible affair that it is 7 o'clock but I have an examination after a half an hour. That was too bad why my alarm clock didn't ring and why I wake up until 7 o'clock. Afterwards, in order to arrive at our test classroom I had a quick shower, put on my clothes randomly,nfl jerseys china, brushed my teeth and washed a face in the course of ten minutes and what's more rushed out as soon as the door opened.
The class was extremely quiet and and all students sat on their seats, additionally the teacher was standing in front of the platform. How embarrassed but I had to say loudly " I'm sorry, I'm late. May I come in?
" So that the teacher can notice me. Time seems to be still when teacher stare at me for a while, and subsequently he said " Come in,start your test quickly. " I entered the classroom in a panic, found out my place and sat down, after that unbelievable thing happened. Where is my school bag?
My pen, my papers and all my things were gone. What I can do just sit there by myself. It must be a nightmare and how I could do for this situation,cheap Oakley sunglasses, great fear struck me with my heart high speed beats.
What is about the outcome?
It is really a nightmare of unpleasant and lousy as a matter of fact.

Wednesday, April 12, 2017

WeChat

WeChat is the most popular communication method among young people nowadays , even some of my elder relatives are also like to discuss matters via our WeChat family group. In the past days,cheap nfl hats, if our big family would like to discuss something about family issue, they had to call other members one by one ,it is really a waste of time and telecommunication fees.

As far as I know , not only Chinese people, but also foreign people would prefer to use WeChat to pay for the bill. In some extent, I think the function of WeChat is stronger than QQ, if you do not like typing words, you can choose to hold down the speaker keys for seconds, and record your voice , cheap oakley sunglasses, after finish recording, you can move away your finger. You can send out your recording voice directly. And the receiver is able to record voice by return. By the way, you can use WeChat for video chatting as well.

As far as I am concerned , sometimes I will send my mood via WeChat friends circle, of course if you like, you can send the image and words together. And your friends can add their comments on them. At first, I send out some sentences only in English version, but some of my friends told me that they could not understand what I was talking about. From then on, cheap jerseys, I decided to send something with both Chinese and English version. In order to make others completely understanding my meaning, I share something in my friends circle in two languages.

Homesick

I think a majority of people have the same experience to feel homesick and it’s definitely a normal reaction.  Homesickness may probably cause some problems : lack of belongs, cheap replica oakleys,no appetite for eating, loss of control and nervousness and etc. We collected some tips to help ease homesickness.

1)      To make some true friends and get some relaxation
Real friends are always playing an important role in our life. To join in some outdoor activities with friends and attend in some entertainment is necessary. Real friends is a big fortune and worthy of treasure for the rest of our life.

2)      To get a decent job and enrich your life
No matter how hard we are doing on our work, at the thought of the sweet family members , wholesale nfl jerseys,we will get much released . It is important for us to learn from work and spare some time to enrich our minds is essential as well. No one is completely free and no stress in the society. We need to strike a proper balance between work and leisure.

3)      Keep positive attitude towards life
We should always keep positive attitude towards life and avoid negative people. Due to your friends around you will affects you a lot.

Melissa Shoes

One pair of comfortable shoes for travelling is very import, go to the beach you must be have a waterproof shoes with you. Cambodia is so many rainy days in the afternoon and I was surprised that they never bring the umbrella at the day,cheap nfl jerseys, just walking on the street like nothing happened.
This trip I forgot to take one shoes for the beach, Anita showed me her shoes cabinet and like me to chose one for staying, wow, there are many big brand shoes in it, Melissa is the kind of proof water shoes I knew my daughter has such kind brand shoe in different fresh color, it is flatted and very comfortable one, May I take this one I asked, Surely, I like a little girl always like the stuffs from others, Anita said your daughter should be my daughter, her sense and hobby is so match with me. Yes frankly speaking I don’t know much what kinds of brand of shoes or cloth for women in different ages, I need to learn more fashion knowledge,cheap snapbacks, I don’t like them to look down on me I am too old school.
When I was back to Beijing, My daughter was happy to sent me a pair of Melissa shoe in white color, please see the picture, she doesn’t want me too old fashion, the smell of the shoe is very sweet and made of like the plastic or rubber, totally waterproof one, so the next trip I have the beautiful shoes. Tell you here it is not advertising for Melissa, everything is my feeling to share.